As many of you know, I find a girl getting messy to be a turn on if it is humiliating for her.

Also, I am a WAM fan that does NOT get messy himself. It doesn't do anything for me.

If I was threatened with a pie, I would not want to get hit because ....... wait for it....... I would feel humiliated! lol

So........ and this poll is for humiliation fans only.......... do you like getting messy?

Sometimes I get messy too. Never alone. It depends on the situation - and the girl, of course.

I love getting messy. It's a turn on. It's humiliating which makes it more of a turn on

To me getting messy is only humiliating if there is a context that makes it humiliating. Luckily it's pretty easy to create that context even if its as simple as "OMG you got hard because I hit you with a pie, haha, you're a pervert". But if I want to feel some nice warm cake batter on my naked body then I can just get messy by myself and enjoy it with no sense of being humiliated.

Apparently I am in the minority on this subject. Oh well.

Getting messy is humiliating with a partner. For me that is part of the turn on. While I enjoy staying clean and playing the dom normally sometimes I do enjoy changing it up.

Great poll question.

I'm with you.

Maybe people reply in general although they shouldn't (like those laugh and fun people).

I love to give, as well as receive. But only in intimate private situations. Although I would love to pie an attractive girl in public one day. Or do a fully dressed mud wrestling bout in public. That's if the girl was okay with it, and it was in the proper setting. Like a carnival or something. Where it wouldn't get too weird. But I don't think I'd like to get pied in the face in public. Especially if I didn't get to retaliate against a pretty girl along the way. But I do love it - in private though - when an attractive girl really gets into making ME messy, just as much as I love making HER messy!

Fake humiliation can be fun. Like a girl saying, "You wouldn't dare!" just before being pied in the face. But I prefer the the comedy aspect of slapstick sex. I love it when a woman laughs uncontrollably, and really enjoys getting wet and messy. Such as a fully dressed girl saying, "Push me!" into the pool, or mud. Or, "Let me have it! Or, "Give it to me!!" Or the classic, "Cum & Splosh Me Already!" just before getting messy. I love this...as opposed to a girl who'll let you do anything to her - wet and messy - but is just going through the motions. Know what I mean?

And I'm really into women who are all made up, and wearing really cute outfits. Then seeing her and that outfit get completely trashed! Now don't get me wrong. Nude WAM is fun too! But I love seeing a woman who doesn't look like she already prepared to be sploshed, get sploshed.

How about you?

I really only want to be on the recving end, no real interest in being on the giving end.

Recv'ing almost always equals humiliation.

Trust me....you are not.

Those "laugh and fun people" suck. WAM IS NOT SUPPOSED TO BE FUN OR FUNNY IN ANY WAY!!!

Well, Robby, the poll disagrees. Can you elaborate as to why you think that?

I love getting messy. It's humiliating!

I think the title of your post probably skewed the sample

nah nah, Im like you ,

Here's the thing. I am not asking "Hey everybody! Do you like getting messy?" That's been done to death. I AM asking, "Hey people who find WAM humiliating, do SPECIFICALLY YOU like getting messy?"

So the title of the thread is appropriate.

I wonder what results would've been with 2 more options for non h fans.

I think the confusion for some of us is what it means to be a "humiliation fan"; i.e., do you enjoy seeing somebody else get humiliated, or do you enjoy getting humiliated yourself. Some people satisfy both definitions, some only one, and that changes the perspective of the question.

Good point! I guess the better question would be......... Hey people who like to see others humiliated with WAM but not yourself............ Do you get messy?

Non h fans weren't supposed to participate.

I've never had any wish to get messy myself. It's just not an aspect of the scene I have any inclination towards.

To me it's always been about that particular facial expression. To this day, I still favour pictures over videos, because a good picture is always a good picture, a video can look promising, but one wrong expression, word, misplaced laughter or what have you can take me right out of the moment.

I think a lot of it stems back to my younger days. I first awoke to the idea of WAM being sexy through Sally James (Tiswas), Benny Hill or similar. But this was in the days before VCR's, or at least before WE had one So an image with a WAM context, was gold dust, it really was. As time went on, and I was old enough to browse the 'top shelf', I discovered magazines such as Razzle, Escort, Fiesta and ultimately Splosh!

But again, it was all images. And the chance of finding an image with an appropriate facial expression was often rare - most of the aforementioned mags treat the subject humorously, rather than with any implied 'punishment' context. It was mostly 'jolly good fun'.

So yeah, sorry to ramble on and go a bit off topic, but for me, WAM is purely a visual thing

Can you show us an example of your favorite facial expression?